Many of us often don’t really know who we are, but do you know the beliefs you have about yourself, dictate how you behave and how others treat you? Perhaps the most important thing we need to understand is that if we don’t know who we are, we don’t know our capabilities.
From the moment we are born, we are programmed to act a particular way, be a particular way, and everyone feels it is their obligation to tell you who you are and who they think you should be. From a very tiny child, we are often programmed to believe that the highest we can possibly aspire to, is exactly the same as what everyone else has around us.
I have been lucky enough to meet many fabulous people in my lifetime and the one constant thing that I am seeing time and time again is wasted potential, so that raises a question for you to consider, “Who’s life are you living?”, are you striving or conforming to the standards your parents/carers set you? Do you put aside your own desires and needs for the sake of your partner/children/family?
If you look at prominent leaders there is one thing that sets them apart from the rest, and if you read autobiographies, you will come across this more and more. These people don’t allow anyone to tell them what they should think, feel, be or how to act. They refuse to follow and conform. Now perhaps some of you are thinking that’s all well and good, but if no one follows rules there would be chaos in the world and yes, you’d be right. What these people do, is they take a situation, and they try to find a way of achieving what they want without creating chaos. They create a vision for themselves and they understand they own strengths, and they are willing to commit to something they believe in and work towards finding a way to achieving that vision.
The angels often tell me, if someone is unhappy with their life, their relationship, their career, it is the soul simply saying, you are not honouring your truth, you are not being who you really want to be. Life passes us by really fast. When we’re young we think we have all the time in the world, but there comes a time when suddenly boom, you realise you’re middle-aged and actually time is going much faster than you thought.
When life isn’t working for you, you have two choices, you can either put up and become someone who just reacts to what life throws at you, or you can do the work and get your life back on track.
In my lifetime, the number of times I have had to get my life back on track are so many, I couldn’t possibly count them. However, each time I do have to address something that is going on in my life, it gets easier or more enlightening with each challenge I face.
Most of us have heard the phrase, “The Truth Shall Set You Free”, this I believe is a very powerful phrase because when we acknowledge the truth, it is then that we have the ability to tap into our strength and change that, which we previously could not, would not, accept needed to done. If I had a pound for the number of people I see, who are stuck, and tell me they ‘can’t’, I would be a millionaire by now.
Our beliefs that we can’t, are just a mirage. If we can understand that we are psychologically programmed to avoid pain, we can understand that this is why so many of us take the easy route. I count myself in being one of those, who at times, chooses to take the easy route, but I have learnt and still am learning that when I do this, it comes back and bites me on the behind every time, so now it is easier to tell it like it is.
If you’re life is in a rut, whether you are struggling with your career, your children, your partner, or a lack of a partner. If you’ve been trying to lose weight but don’t seem to get further than the thought of it, stop for a moment and ask yourself if this is where you want to be in another five years?
Within the spiritual and motivational industries, many people write books, talk about the power of positivity, and whilst it can help, my experience is that we always revert back to what we have become attuned to. Life has a way of bringing us the lessons we need, when those lessons are being ignored, we experience pain, chaos and suffering. The road of suffering leads us to enlightenment, but I believe and have experienced that it doesn’t have to be this way.
If you’d like to change your life, become the person who you want to be. If you want to discover and explore your capacity to excel in any area, you need to have great self-esteem, self-love, and the ability to reframe the programming of your childhood and the story of your life, that you now use as a point of reference.
You see, our stories, what we say about our lives, and what we do, these are what dictate our current potential in life. You have to start listening to the story you are telling yourself, about yourself. We truly are the product of our beliefs and emotions. If you’d like help in understanding who you are, and you’d like to explore the possibilities of who you would like to become, I invite you to join me on my Soul Empowerment master class.
If you’re ready to change your life and you need help fixing it, then I am here to offer my help. You may think you’re confident, you may think you have good self-esteem, but do you really love yourself? Do you love yourself enough to admit you’re not being truthful about how you feel, in certain areas of your life?
If we want to encourage our loved ones and help them live a better life, what better way an we do this than by being a living example. If you lack the confidence to change your life, come along and learn some of the very simple, quick and easy things you can do to help you feel better about you. If you’re quite confident but doubt your ability to have success in any area of your life, this master class will reach out and open up aspect of yourself that you didn’t know were there.
Sometimes change calls for us to take one small step and once we’ve made that commitment, everything changes. Are you commited to you? If you believe in the labels other people have given you such as ‘idle’, ‘fat’, ‘stupid’ ‘indecisive’ ‘lazy’ ‘liar’ ‘selfish’ or anything else you can come up with, you are not living your own live, which means you don’t know who you are.
If you’re tired of other people defining how you live, if you’ve tried to change in the past and it hasn’t worked, come and try our soul empowerment. Often when we read books, or attend classes or seminars the focus is on teaching you to change your behaviour, and so for a while we try behaving differently, but eventually we revert back to doing what we’ve always done, and this is because we are not taught how to address our beliefs about who we are, and where they have come from. We are not taught to understand that in order to change our lives, we have to begin with changing our thought patterns. This is where I offer help. I assist you in breaking the pattern of your thinking, your beliefs about who you are.
Guilt, shame, anger will always bring you chaos. If you are holding onto any of these, life will be like a roller-coaster. I believe we all have within us the ability to master ourselves and aspire to anything we set our mind to, the question you need to ask yourself is are you growing, or are you dying? We can only do one or the other, take some time to think about your life, seriously and honestly look at your life, acknowledge where you are at, don’t see it worse or better than it is, just look at it.
If you’d like to change your life, learn more about yourself, if you want to learn how to stop your limiting belief patterns, then come along and meet with a group of people who are passionate about living a fully inspired life.
This opportunity to know yourself takes place on 8 & 9 March 2014
Details can be found here:-
What you believe about yourself and others will determine how high you go, or how low you fall.
The only way you can change your life, is to redefine who you are, and what is possible.
It’s never too late to create the life you’ve always wanted for yourself.
Other Tools You May Find Useful –
|56 Lord Sananda – Soul Empowerment Meditation CD
|56 Lord Sananda – Soul Empowerment Meditation MP3